Eat, Drink, And Oh Wait…Just Drink

It dawned on me yesterday that I’ve never had a huge bang up New Year’s Eve. I mean we’ve gone to parties in the past at friends’ houses but I’ve never ridden in a limo or been to Times Square or anything mind blowing to ring in the New Year. And quite honestly I’m secretly a little bit of a home body and that’s fine with me. Hubby and I have dinner reservations at an Italian restaurant and then we’ll probably head home and watch New Year’s Eve coverage on TV and drink some bubbly.

One of the most memorable New Year’s Eves that we spent together was in 1998. A good friend of mine from college invited us to Memphis and I was so excited because we had tickets for a party at the Botanical Gardens. The event was sponsored by a young working professionals philanthropic organization my friend was involved with and I was certain it would be a fabulous soiree. We skipped dinner because we knew there would be a fantastic spread of food. Of course we started drinking before we headed for the party.

We arrived at the venue and it was an absolutely gorgeous setting. The place was filled to the gills with 20-something singles dressed up and dancing their asses off and drinking cheap mixed drinks and beer.

Hubby and I held hands and snaked through the crowd toward the highly anticipated buffet. We were starving. And there it was, the most incredibly (disappointing) sight ever—all you could eat Wendy’s chili.

WTF? (Pardon my French but, frankly, that is what we were both thinking.)

Young women in flirty little black dresses and heels and men in suits and ties were actually standing in line and waiting to fix themselves a bowl of chili. This seemed so wrong. I know the organization was happy to have the evening’s food donated but I would have gladly taken some smoked weenies and cheese squares on fancy toothpicks. Where were the fancy pants hors d’oeuvres?

We’d driven more than three hours for an out of town party, gotten all dressed up and hit the town, and the only available food at the event was being donated by a fast food joint. To make it even more comical for me, the only fast food job I had in my life had been one summer in high school at our small town Wendy’s and it was a particularly heinous experience. Flashbacks to high school and wearing navy polyester pants, a zip up striped top, and a goofy hat and coming home smelling of a single with cheese—-this was not good.

We decided to make the best of it because we were out with a great group of friends and we were all in the same boat. I know at one point some song came on that I loved and I kicked up my heels and catapulted a black high-heeled pump half way across the dance floor. Thankfully I didn’t take out anyone’s eye. Hubby and I ended up drinking our calories that evening, which was unfortunate for both of us the next morning. This was four years before we had Miss C, though, so we could handle it better. And by handle it better I mean we could sleep in the next day and do absolutely nothing that required bright light or noise or rapid movement.

Tonight we’re having a nice quiet dinner out, just the two of us, and sipping on champagne at home from our crystal champagne flutes that we got for our wedding in 1997 and I can’t wait!

What are you doing to ring in 2010?

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I'm Jamie, a 40-something Nashville mom desperately seeking a few moments of Zen and zinfandel between soccer practice and supper. I love to travel, find great deals, and talk with my hands. My former beach bartender husband founded MouseCalls Computer Services. We have two daughters, three dogs, and too much laundry. Email me at blondemomblog @

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  1. Oh my. What a story. It kind of makes my stomach hurt just thinking about it.
    .-= Brigid Day´s last blog ..resolutions, part 38 =-.

  2. I will be at work until 11:30 and then most likey pulling into my appartment’s parking lot at midnight, but I have a bottle of sparkling grape juice chilling (litterally its like 28 out there) in the car and plan to drink it as soon as I pull in!

  3. I haven’t had any bang up celebrations for new year’s myself. Tonight I’ll be home with my girls, pregnant with my son, while my husband works – playing guitar in a club for people trying to have their own bang up time.

  4. Brigid, trust me my stomach hurt just writing it!
    .-= Jamie´s last blog ..Eat, Drink, And Oh Wait

  5. amie palenchar says:

    Staying in tonight with the kiddos. We have party hats, horns, confetti, fire in fireplace & Beatles Rock Band. Hubster grilled burgers outside in the rain & fog. Nachos, Berger cookies & rootbeer floats- lotta eating going on here – oh yeah a very yummy glass of wine. I hope this doesn’t sound like I am complaining bc I am not , I am in my fav place with my fav people. Oh yeah, I am dressed in black which makes it all tres chic :) Happy New Year

  6. Oh what a big disappointment!! Glad that you were able to have fun anyway though. New Year’s Eve and most of the day will be spent with Hubby and kids…playing wii, entering giveaways and doing laundry…ahh the joys of growing up.
    .-= Mellisa´s last blog ..What to look for in the Year Ahead for Me? =-.

  7. We just stayed at home and had a nice dinner and a quiet evening. We like it that way!

  8. That was so hilarious! And I totally laughed at that image of you flinging the shoe across the room.

    We took the kids for dinner at 5 to AJ’s Ale House, came home, watched a movie, put them to bed at 9 (and did a mock countdown to New Year’s for their benefit) and turned in early ourselves.

    Quite the revelers we are! ;)
    .-= Mary @ The Writer’s Block´s last blog ..I Am a New-Year’s-Resolutions Kind of Girl =-.

  9. We were home by 8:15 from dinner at Carraba’s and then we had champagne. I barely managed to make it up past midnight! ;)

    p.s I highly recommend AJ’s California burger if you live in my hood.
    .-= Jamie´s last blog ..Happy New Year! =-.

  10. Wendy’s chili? That is disappointing and also – hilarious.

    We are so hip and stuff that Peter suggested we go out Wednesday night, New Year’s Eve Eve, to avoid the drunks. So we did. We (old people) had a lovely dinner at Flemings and went straight home.

    New Year’s Eve was fun because we were home with my parents and sister, and watched the ball drop and toasted with champagne. I had count-down bags for the kids and H made it (baby did not make it to 12 – opened his next day.)
    .-= amy2boys´s last blog ..Photo Management – 10 Best Tips Please =-.

  11. Charlene Kuser says:

    We have not been out in a long time for New Years.I have designated myself
    to be a DD for friends and family members.Sounds like you had a great time!

  12. Thank you for the great article,
    i like the way you are presenting the matter.
    keep up great writing, thank you.
    .-= wedding toasting flutes´s last blog ..Know more about wedding toasting flutes =-.

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