Comments on: Queen Bees and Drama Queens http://blondemomblog.com/2008/03/04/queen-bees-and-drama-queens Pontificating about poop and pinot noir since 2005 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 01:47:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lavinia Graham http://blondemomblog.com/2008/03/04/queen-bees-and-drama-queens/comment-page-1#comment-265701 Lavinia Graham Wed, 11 May 2011 09:38:40 +0000 http://blondemomblog.com/2008/03/04/queen-bees-and-drama-queens/#comment-265701 I think 1 of your adverts caused my internet browser to resize, you might would like to put that in your blacklist. Queen Bees and Drama Queens is really a cool name for a blog BTW ;) I think 1 of your adverts caused my internet browser to resize, you might would like to put that in your blacklist. Queen Bees and Drama Queens is really a cool name for a blog BTW ;)

]]> By: Halina Goldstein http://blondemomblog.com/2008/03/04/queen-bees-and-drama-queens/comment-page-1#comment-168901 Halina Goldstein Sat, 03 May 2008 20:28:58 +0000 http://blondemomblog.com/2008/03/04/queen-bees-and-drama-queens/#comment-168901 I work part time in a kindergarten here in Denmark. Although less frequent, I have witnessed a lot of times when boys would play the same manipulative games as girls. "If I can't have your sword you're not my friend anymore" or, better still "...you can't come to my birthday!". I watch these and other intense emotional dramas played out by 3-6 years old children with amazement. Basically, they're exploring and playing with emotions in the same way they explore every other aspect of life: wholeheartedly and without control. It's beautiful in a way because they don't judge themselves for doing so - they just do it. The judgment comes later on... And, a child that explores such states doesn't necessarily become a "bad selfish manipulative" person. So don't despair! :-) Many greetings Halina <em>Halina Goldstein's last blog post..<a href='http://halinagold.com/relations/?p=20' rel="nofollow">Unconditional love wanted</a></em> I work part time in a kindergarten here in Denmark. Although less frequent, I have witnessed a lot of times when boys would play the same manipulative games as girls. “If I can’t have your sword you’re not my friend anymore” or, better still “...you can’t come to my birthday!”.

I watch these and other intense emotional dramas played out by 3-6 years old children with amazement. Basically, they’re exploring and playing with emotions in the same way they explore every other aspect of life: wholeheartedly and without control. It’s beautiful in a way because they don’t judge themselves for doing so – they just do it.
The judgment comes later on…

And, a child that explores such states doesn’t necessarily become a “bad selfish manipulative” person. So don’t despair! :-)

Many greetings

Halina

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]]> By: PreSchool Mama http://blondemomblog.com/2008/03/04/queen-bees-and-drama-queens/comment-page-1#comment-139057 PreSchool Mama Mon, 10 Mar 2008 16:20:25 +0000 http://blondemomblog.com/2008/03/04/queen-bees-and-drama-queens/#comment-139057 I think it's because women are conditioned, even in these days to see other women as competition. It's sad that it can be seen so early in girls. I taught preschool for two years, and the boys were just so "straightforward" in their fights. The girls were another matter altogether! <em>PreSchool Mama's last blog post..<a href='http://preschoolmama.com/index.php/2008/03/10/preschool-tea-party-activity/' rel="nofollow">Plan a Tea Party With Your PreSchooler</a></em> I think it’s because women are conditioned, even in these days to see other women as competition. It’s sad that it can be seen so early in girls. I taught preschool for two years, and the boys were just so “straightforward” in their fights. The girls were another matter altogether!

PreSchool Mama’s last blog post..Plan a Tea Party With Your PreSchooler

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